The Psychological Make-up of
a Suicide Bomber

by Joan Lachkar, Ph.D.

May 7, 2002

The Journal of Psychohistory
Volume 29, No. 4, Spring 2002
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The world has witnessed the most abusive couple ever, the pathological love dance between Osama Bin Laden and the United States. In this “love affair” Osama forms a pathological abusive relationship with America. Osama views the US as the Great Satan, the evil partner responsible for all the wrong doings in the world. So envious is Osama of America that he confuses (his wife America) with a piece of property to be owned and controlled. But America has her own life, and because she chooses not to be submissive, suicide bombers and terrorists must destroy her. Because she is the exciting object she is also the “threatening” one (the dangerous enviable domineering materialistic America who intrudes and disrupts Arab unity). Osama submitted his holy self to Allah, yet his other self maintains a lustful attachment with “HER” America. This is not a far cry from couples traumatically bonded in marital conflict.

Since the bombing of the World Trade Center on September 11, 2001, there has been much curiosity about the make-up of a suicide bomber or terrorist. Until recently there has been virtually no interest in Middle Eastern psychology except by international scholars, sociologists, psychoanalysts, psychohistorians, and others studying the region. Suddenly, everyone is obsessed. Americans want to understand the dark and mysterious enigma behind the September 11th suicide missions and are desperately trying to make sense of what Westerners typically perceive as "a twisted mind." Bookstores and newspaper and magazine stands can hardly keep Islamic material on their shelves, especially the Koran or anything having to do with the Middle East. What type of person wants to commit suicide for a cause? Do Muslims really believe they will die heroes and be greeted in Paradise by 72 virgins? What group fantasies surround their hallucinatory ties to Allah? What is it in their childrearing practices that link aggressive leaders to cruelty, sadism, and paranoia? People are asking questions such as: "If martyrdom is so glorious, why is bin Laden in hiding?" or "Why isn't there a ‘fatwa’ against Osama bin Laden for blasphemy against Islam?” (Los Angeles Times, October 4, 2001). Because there are no simple answers, we must go beyond the conventional, the obvious, and the observable to explain the motivational forces in history. Psychohistory ventures further into the political, social, and psychocultural aspects of history and reviews such intrapsychic unconscious motivations as primitive defenses, unresolved oedipal conflicts, and other psychodynamics.

In the massive media coverage following the killing of more than 3,000 people, there was little mention of why the terrorists felt compelled to kill Americans. That the terrorists were "evil," as characterized by President Bush, seemed insufficient to satisfy our curiosity as to their motives. If we are to end terrorism, it would be useful to delve into what makes a terrorist and what developmental life histories terrorists share. This can help us gain a sense of why Islamic terrorists see American civilians as "Satans," and praise their sons for becoming suicide bombers.

Since the WTC attack, I have been overwhelmed with material from people, offering psychoanalytic interpretations. Are we witnessing the obsessive re-staging of the death of Osama bin Laden’s father, who was killed in the United States when Osama was ten years old? Is bin Laden avenging the death of his father? Does he identify with those he sends to their death as a way of recovering the lost object? Is the crashing into the World Trade Center symbolic of killing off the “needy” and materialistic split-off, repressed part of the terrorists? Is crashing into the skyscraper a symbol of the penis penetrating and destroying the symbolic “America” for its sexual freedom?

Like many psychohistorians, Jay Lifton (Los Angeles Times, 12 September 2001) is still trying to figure out how a group can be taken over by a cause and pulled into an "all or nothing commitment." Alluding to his theory of Totalism, he likens the terrorists to adolescents who are prone to find altruism through rigid fanaticism, often guided by a strong leader. Robins and Post in Political Paranoia (1997) view terrorist acts as a perverse way of connecting to the world. They maintain that people are fueled by paranoid delusional leaders and glom onto a piece of reality to “justify” their causes — e.g., the enviable or “evil” American. Paranoids have enemies; they do not have rivals or adversaries. Enemies are not to be defeated or compromised, but destroyed. People who are paranoid tend to project their hatred and hostility onto others. In the case of Osama bin Laden, one might rephrase this distorted thinking to: "My father was killed in an airplane crash in the United States when I was ten years old; therefore the United States is evil, and I must destroy her.” What could constitute a more omnipotent fantasy than crashing into the World Trade Center?

Adam Robinson has written the best psychologically oriented biography to date called Bin Laden: Behind the Mask of the Terrorist and he says OBL was10 years olds when his father died in a helicopter crash in the desert (54). OBL's eldest half brother also died in a plane crash, I believe though it was an ultralight type plane, San Antonio, later on in his teens.
Not all members of a given group—in this case, followers of Islam and those who live in the Middle East—behave in a manner consistent with that of suicide bombers. Still, one can speculate and make some broad generalizations while remaining keenly aware of their limitations. This paper discusses the suicide bomber from a mythological, psychohistorical, and psychoanalytic perspective as an extension of an age-old conflict. Expressions of interlocking dynamics and configurations are communicated through such primitive defenses as shame, fear of dependency, unresolved oedipal issues, omnipotent denial, and magical thinking. I attribute the underlying conflicts in Islam as having their origins in identification with the absent father, a syndrome compatible with the collective borderline personality.

Psychohistory and the Borderline Personality

Psychohistory offers two important venues to explore as we delve further into the mind of the suicide bomber and its linkage to terrorism. First is the role psychohistory plays in helping us understand cultural patterns handed down from generation to generation, embedded in the very core of the group’s identity as expressed through mythology, ideology, religion, childrearing practices, the treatment of women—ongoing behaviors and characteristics strikingly similar to borderline organization. Second is the exploration of the role that group-fantasies play and the way they are enacted through identification with group leaders who best play out the group’s myths, ideology, and omnipotent fantasies. These venues can best be understood by describing the borderline personality, not so much to assign a “diagnosis” but to understand how the architecture of a culture can shape certain personality types. If we are to comprehend the mind of a suicide bomber and terrorism as a whole we must start with a well-founded basic premise, in this case shared traits of the suicide bomber and the borderline personality.

I first ventured into psychohistory by delving into the historical, mythological, psychological, and religious past of the Middle East, observing the political interaction between the Arabs and the Jews as a "dance." I felt compelled to understand what it is that bonds/binds individuals or groups in ongoing, circular, never-ending battles whereby conflict resolution becomes virtually impossible. There are two recurring myths in the Bible and the Koran that have significance in fueling the Arab–Israeli conflict. The first myth is the belief that Jews are God's "chosen people" (a narcissistic diagnosis), and the second that the Arabs are an "orphan" society, the "abandoned" children of God (a borderline diagnosis). The latter can be viewed as a reenactment of the Biblical experience of abandonment—Ishmael abandoned in the desert—indicating a borderline condition with its shame components. From these mythic origins, age-old sentiments and passions have persisted and continually resurface, giving rise to many shared collective group-fantasies.

The Arab–Israeli conflict also has striking similarities to marital discord between narcissistic and borderline personalities that I have observed in my clinical practice. This confluence of psychoanalysis and psychohistory is treated in "The Arab-Israeli Conflict: A Psychoanalytic Study" (Lachkar, 1983); The Narcissistic/Borderline Couple: A Psychoanalytic Perspective on Marital Treatment (Lachkar, 1992); and The Many Faces of Abuse: Treating the Emotional Abuse of High-Functioning Women (Lachkar, 1998).

Where do culture and pathology lie? Where do the boundaries between aggression, cruelty, and cultural tradition interface? What are the forces mutual to individual psychopathology and political relationships (Lachkar, 1993)? Psychohistorians cannot ignore the psychodynamic aspects of character and culture.

The salient characteristics of a terrorist or a suicide bomber can best be examined within the matrix of the borderline personality. Societies that are obsessed with religion, death, threat of annihilation, or the means to ensure afterlife cannot tolerate the uniqueness or difference of others and share common emotional traits with borderline personalities. More specifically, one must explain the on-going, painful, never-ending destructive behaviors that persist without ever reaching any conflict resolution. Islam and Islamic childrearing attempts to repudiate all aspects of dependency and perceives all personal desires, needs, and wishes as tantamount to weakness and failure. This is akin to borderline patients who grow up believing their needs are dangerous and resort to acting them out impulsively and irrationally. Because borderlines are so far removed from their real needs, they lack the impulse control and self-regulatory mechanisms to observe situations and make rational judgments.

Borderlines are dominated by shame/blame defenses, have defective bonding and dependency needs, are extremely envious, and will retaliate at any cost. They are lacking in impulse control, have poor reality testing, and impaired judgments. Because of their impaired ego structure, they fail to learn from experience and will repeat the same mistakes again and again. The borderline suffers from profound fears of abandonment and annihilation, as well as persecutory anxieties. They do not have a sense of a real self, are heavily invested and fused with their objects, and have never reached the developmental stage of separation–individuation. Because they have never separated from mother’s body, they remain forever attached to the allegorical world of lost mothers, lost fathers, and abandoned babies. When their emotional world is threatened or when they feel betrayed, they will respond with retaliatory responses, even at the expense of others or by the sacrifice of the self.

One of the most striking features is the borderline’s tendency to distort, manipulate, and misperceive reality. When they do something “bad,” they claim that something bad was done to them. When they lie, they claim others have lied to them, consistently believing their lies are the truth and forever perceiving themselves as victims. Borderlines have developed a magnificent false self that belies or veils the true self. Because they lack a real self, they must insert an imaginary one in order to prevent the sensation of emptiness. Their splitting mechanism and tendency to project blame keep them trapped in a state of victimization (all good is kept within, all bad projected without).

These notions are essential to the arguments in this paper, because the ties between shame and dependency are at variance with issues around the Oedipal level of development (Levi, 2001). Let us take a look a few of these dynamics.
Envy is one of the most dominant features of the borderline personality. It is destructive in nature and is considered to be the most primitive and fundamental emotion. Its most glaring characteristic is the intent to destroy that which is envied and therefore is needed and missed (unlike jealousy). Another dominant dynamic is shame. Shame is a matter between the person and the group. It is the pre-occupation with what others think, while guilt is primarily a matter between a person and his conscience. Many scholars have referred to Asian and Middle Eastern societies as shame cultures. Those who fail to comply with the group’s ideologies are ousted from the group as “infidels.” In shame societies there is an exaggerated tendency for people to experience others as deliberately inflicting punishment on them. Shame is persecutory in nature and is associated with isolation and being abandoned or annihilated by the group, tribe, or society.

Finally, the discussion of omnipotence and dependency is important in this analysis. Children whose formative years are deficient in maternal care-taking grow up never learning how to develop healthy dependency needs. Omnipotence is the flip side of dependency. To ward off intolerable feelings of smallness and helplessness, one develops a grandiose, omnipotent self. It is often the needy, neglected dependent child who grows up with an omnipotent self and projects the needy self onto others, making them the scapegoats. “It is you that is the needy one, not me!” This is most confusing, but most relevant to our topic. The bitter paradox is that the more one “needs,” the more one desires to destroy the needed object.

“My needs are disgusting so I will project them onto you and then destroy you!” In understanding the tensions in the Middle East within this context, the object of desire also becomes the object of frustration and hatred. Since the early mind cannot absorb the state of ambivalence, the child splits and projects the hatred part. For instance, father becomes both the object of love and hatred. All children “love” and have need for the father, but when he is unavailable as a defense he becomes the object of frustration.

This paper holds the position that both parents are responsible for the child’s development. One cannot solely blame women for all the abuse and wrongdoing toward children and perpetuation of violence from generation to generation. It also holds that the Oedipus complex is universal and that all children go through the similar states of development as prescribed by Western psychologists. Ideally, the mother provides the nurturing and protective capacity while the father helps the child separate and individuate. In the Winnicottian sense, it is the father who provides the “holding environment” and the “transitional space” to help wean the child away from mother to the outer world (Winnicott (1965). But if the father is absent, or if the holding environment is damaged or defected, the child’s momentum to drive forward during crucial phases of the separation process becomes thwarted. In addition, the proclivity toward borderline organization is greatly increased. It is noteworthy that children raised in neglectful, abusive, traumatic environments grow up with defective bonding relations and stay forever connected to the “Mother of Pain,” forming relational bonds that are destructive and painful (traumatic bonding). This takes us to the heart of the matter. As horrific as the pain is, it is preferable to a black hole (Grotstein, 1990). The emptiness is the black hole, the epicenter of the conflict. Individuals who grow up never having a sense of identity turn to an idea, an ideology, or a belief — anything that gives them some semblance of belonging. “At least I know I am alive. I feel excited. I have meaning and purpose to my life. Better to be an addict, a killer, a rapist, a terrorist, than to vanish into the abyss!”

In an interview, a suicide bomber was asked what his attraction to martyrdom was:

Someone bent on martyrdom becomes immune to the material pull. We get to meet the Prophet and his companions, Inshallah! We were floating, swimming in the feeling that we were about to enter eternity. We had no doubts. We made an oath on the Koran, in the presence of Allah—a pledge not to waiver . . . . it’s done for “Allah’s sake, hurts less than a gnat’s bite!” (Nasra Hassan, 2001)

In terrorist cults, it is considered a great honor not only to destroy the enemy but to make him fearful. These regressed groups share one thing in common: they all need a scapegoat, someone to project their hatred and rage onto, someone to blame for all their shortcomings. Just as borderline male patients cannot “love” and use sex as the replacement for love, terrorists use fear as the replacement for human bonding. In essence, both the borderline and the terrorist think they have separated from mother’s body, but they are forever stuck living emotionally in utero.

The Role of Men and Women in the Islamic World

The patriarchal perspective of Arab society means that females are relegated to a low position in all aspects of their existence, including their private lives.
Women in fundamentalist Islam societies have no rights, no vote, and very low self-esteem. Fidelity is expected of the woman but not of the man. She learns to tolerate her lot in painful silence, and when she does not obey she runs the risk of her husband divorcing her or taking on a second wife (Altorki, 1986, pg. 63). Under the guise of religion or traditionalism, aggressive group leaders can play out the group’s most heinous crimes and vicious fantasies against women. The Koran supports women being submissive to men. Religion and culture provide permission for men to act out their cruelest and most vicious fantasies against women.

Women are given no respect by men, who encourage their sons to have the same low opinion of women. Men, ostensibly at least, are given the job of guiding the future participants in society—their sons. While women actually have most of the responsibility for raising both male and female children, they are accorded no respect or gratitude for taking on this role. Rather, they are blamed for the ills of society because of what men regard as their inherently evil nature. The 1996 will of Mohammed Atta, the apparent ringleader of the terrorists of the World Trade Center bombings, stipulated that he did not want any pregnant women or unclean people at his funeral, and sternly warned against women being present at his graveside. In addition, he wrote that that he did not want to be buried next to a woman. Atta's will directly reflects the deep-rooted misogyny within Islam, and all the contempt and rage embodied within the society (Glazov, CNN, September 2001). Women in Arab fundamentalist societies have little hope of proving themselves worthy of respect and admiration by their own actions. Thus, a suicide bomber offspring becomes the perfect instrument to redeem women’s status in society.

According to Lloyd deMause (this issue), the roots of terrorism are inextricably linked to childrearing practices. DeMause offers a chilling account of life in Islamic fundamentalist societies filled with violence, cruelty, and sexual exploitation of children. These are familiar themes in countries that do not stress the importance of healthy child development. Osama bin Laden has himself made reference to much obvious sex abuse language. In a propaganda video, he states, "To all the mujahedin, your brothers in Palestine are waiting for you; it's time to penetrate America and Israel and hit them where it hurts most" (CNN, Sept. 28, 2001).

According to Altorki (1986, p. 61), girls and boys are separated before puberty. Boys supposedly fall under their father’s supervision after they are seven years of age. However, since fathers generally are absent for long periods, both male and female children are actually brought up in the women’s living quarters, which men visit only rarely. Because day-to-day supervision of sons falls to the mother, the father becomes a nominal figure. Not only are they absent a great deal, they are basically emotionally unavailable because of the polygamist structure of Islamic society in which a man has several wives and many children (like Bin Landen’s father). Neglect by the father and the limited ability of the mother to do much more than carry out the father’s edicts contribute to the child’s inability to master and triumph over oedipal rivals. If one cannot “master the rival,” the alternative is to comply and submit or compete and destroy. Unleashed aggression at early ages arouses conflicts between omnipotence and self-subjugation—unremitting compliance with and submission to Allah.

DeMause concludes it is not surprising that mentally and physically mutilated women make less than ideal mothers and inflict their own miseries upon their children. This helps perpetuate the circle of violence and cruelty around which the society functions. The girl's sexuality is so hated that when she is five or so the women grab her, pin her down, and chop off her clitoris and often her labia with a razor blade or piece of glass, ignoring her agony and her screams for help. This is done because her clitoris is considered "dirty, ugly, and poisonous..." It is written in the Koran that the evil clitoris will grow and hang, making men impotent and killing children (Burstyn, 1995, p.12). Men grow up unable to cope with their own sexuality. For example, one Taliban prisoner drew a picture of a beautiful woman on a tropical beach and then shortly after used a black pen to strike hundreds of angry Xs through her face (Los Angeles Times, November 18, 2001, p. A15)

One might conclude that violence toward women is rooted in repressed envy — emanating from feeling threatened and persecuted — enacted by adult men deprived of maternal affection, fueling sadistic ties with victimized women. No wonder American and Israeli women must be destroyed. And no wonder that the West becomes the “clitorisland” of self-indulgence and pleasure, a lifestyle highly objectionable to the Arab world. Most of the Taliban, who, like bin Laden, are wealthy enough to have had contact with the West, were shocked by the personal freedoms, the promiscuity, and the affluence of the average American citizen. As deMause points out, Osama bin Laden himself "while in college frequented flashy nightclubs, casinos and bars [and] was a drinker and womanizer." However, he soon felt severe guilt for his sins, and joined the extreme fundamentalist movement, calling for the killing Westerners for their freedoms and their sinful enticements of Muslims. DeMause confirms that turning to terrorism has nothing to do with gaining wealth, but stems from a childhood which sees personal needs and pleasures as all sinful.

Much to their surprise, on November 16, 2001, the American people witnessed the first stirrings of freedom and liberty among the men and women in Afghanistan. Men waited in line to shave their beards and woman frantically ripped off their burkas and put on make-up after the Northern Alliance conquered and took over Kabul (Los Angeles Times, 17 November 2001). The beginnings of a restoration of national pride and self-identity started to emerge as women were released from repression and given back some of their personal freedom.

Group Psychology and Group Leaders

Individuals dominated by primitive defenses often form a trance relationship or an intense identification with a charismatic leader who best offers the promise to: (1) play out the group’s mythological fantasies, and (2) play out the group’s aggression. Aggression is addictive, exciting, and people get hooked (Gay, 1986). Aggression and cruelty reinforce the libidinal ties in groups, as long as there are outsiders (enemies/scapegoats) to blame and onto whom to project. When one is vulnerable, one is more inclined to identify with a leader who offers any semblance of bonding (Lachkar, 1993)

Often these charismatic leaders are paranoid, schizophrenic, and pathologically disturbed. Osama bin Laden, for example, is a pathological borderline in complicity with the group's dysfunctionality. That one part of the mind completely escapes reality accounts for how nations choose violent leaders who take young men to suicidal wars. Although many have referred to Islamic leaders as narcissistic, I propose that the borderline personality is more suitable for understanding Islamic cultural patterns. In The Emotional Life of Nations (2002), deMause refers to “macho politicians” as “Phallic Leaders” such as those with dominant narcissistic personalities characterized by intense self-involvement and grandiosity. Richard Nixon, Lyndon Johnson, John F. Kennedy all shared the desire for admiration and shrank in the face of humiliation, shame, and defeat. There was a concern for what others think. Hitler and Napoleon were flaming narcissists, driven by a passion to conquer and be admired. At least the narcissist knows he’s lying, whereas the borderline lives and becomes the lie since he is convinced that what he is saying is the truth.

Unlike American and European narcissistic leaders, borderline Arab leaders assert their powers not to win adulation or admiration but to destroy the infidels. How many narcissists wear live in a cave with four wives and fifteen children and no running water like Osama bin Laden, who certainly does not dress to impress? His real mission is to wage a holy war, a jihad to keep infidels in check and ensure they do not infect or contaminate others with spillage from their toxic pleasures and freedom.

Groups form identification with leaders who know how to play out the group’s ideologies, mythologies, and collective group-fantasies. Themes such as “Drive the Jews into the Sea,” “Return to the Land of Milk and Honey,” Land for Peace,” and “Destroy America” are all too familiar. When tensions surge, members resort to shame/blame, fight/flight, and scapegoating. The group searches for an enemy and a messiah who will save the group from calamity. Leaders who are sadistic and cruel can at times appear benevolent and kind. Bin Laden, for example, offers the hope and promise that if Muslims remain faithful to their prayers, they will rise, overcome, and be rewarded in heaven. Osama bin Laden is considered the world’s foremost terrorist. For many abandoned “orphans” he has become the envoy, the “chosen one,” the one who best meets and matches the group’s delusional fantasies: “Our terrorism is good and yours is bad” (Osama bin laden, CNN News, 14 November 2001). Considering the abandoned “orphan” theme, one might suggest that Arabs turn to borderline paranoid leaders who play out and concretize the group’s mythology and collective delusional fantasies, giving meaning to the "meaninglessness.” These leaders form a powerful and intimate connection with the group's most passionate archaic sentiments and beliefs — i.e., "If I pray five times a day, kill myself, sacrifice my needs/desires, I will be loved by Allah."

I have elsewhere discussed Islam as being an “orphan,” “fatherless” society (Lachkar, 1983, 1993, 1994 ), and the Koran makes many references to orphans. To escape the abandoned orphan syndrome, the only solution is to become a Shahid, a martyr, a terrorist, or a suicide bomber—one who dies in the holy war against the infidels. Even in this desire, the father is all-important. Devote Muslims speak of Allah in their prayers as they hallucinate the resurrection of the absent father. Piven (2001, p. 143) summarizes the linkage between religion and societies that experience trauma and discord originating in unresolved oedipal strivings. This concept can be very puzzling. How can one idealize and love Allah and want to destroy him at the same time? Bin Laden is a good example. He both loves and hates his father, but because his father was not there when he needed him, the love was transferred onto an idealized father, Allah, and the hatred projected onto the Americans. “I love Allah. It is not I who hate him; it is the Americans, the infidels.” In this way he protects himself from the repressed hatred and becomes the fanatic defender of the faith. The psychohistorical explanation lies within the concept of projective identification, and here it is in its finest form. To maintain idealized love, one must eradicate one’s most unwanted parts. Women, children, and America become obvious targets. In the final analysis we might conclude that terrorists are looking for one thing: love from Allah to redeem them from their own needy and shameful selves.

It is not just a coincidence that many leaders in the Muslim world have been orphaned (Lachkar, 1983, 1993). It is not surprising to see how many impoverished Moslems are inclined to over-identify with Islamic “orphan” leaders, those who are best able to play out their collectively shared group-fantasies. Muhammad, the Prophet, was himself an orphan, as are such imperious leaders as Saddam Hussein, Yasir Arafat, and bin Laden. Certainly not all Arabs and Jews adhere to these myths, but the ones who do are more likely to form identification with the leaders who concretize their mythology. Group members perceive their leaders as being omnipotent, all-powerful, idealistic, messianic saviors, and themselves as inadequate and undeserving.

Terrorists such as those involved in the WTC bombing form emotional bonds generated by certain group myths—that by surrendering and giving their lives to a cause they will be saved by a newly-found "messianic daddy." These regressive groups fuse with their leaders and display many collective defensive operations (shame, blame, magical thinking, splitting, omnipotent denial, projection, and projective identification) peculiar to the borderline personality disorder. Typically, these defenses serve to distort one's perspective of reality, and generate feelings and passions that are in continual conflict and opposition. This has a parallel in gang mentality, whereby gang leaders crystallize into paternal leaders who give meaning to the gang's existence though violence, killing, and other acts of aggression.

Martyrdom and the Search for Love

The suicide bomber is a synthesized version of a fanatic leader. They are walking time bombs, symbols of an entire sexually repressed society that repudiates women and any semblance of freedom, which is felt to be a national threat. The suicide bomber yearns to return to the fertile breast, the land where mommy and baby were once one, a revisit to the lost Biblical maternal figures.

The conflicts that occur in Islamic societies arise from the absence of the father. Because he is both inhibiting and unavailable, the child becomes over-stimulated by the presence of the mother. The more loving she is, the harder it is for the child to inhibit his sexual drives. According to Lakov Levi (personal communication, October 2001), an Israeli archeologist and psychohistorian, when a child is injured or rejected at the oedipal level he feels guilty and interprets the injury or the abandonment as a punishment for his own sexuality. All his life he will feel compelled to punish and blame others for his unconfined impulses. Americans, because of their culture of sexual freedom and permissiveness, become the perfect targets for the acting out of the punishment. The woman, who in the biblical Eden had been the target of man’s lust, is now seen as the main culprit and the object of hatred for his own repressed drives and burning desires.

DeMause examines Palestinian terrorist acts as having their underlying motivation on the lifelong search for love. The pushing of the button brings ecstatic thoughts and smiles to the faces of suicide bombers and their proud families. Regardless, they all share one thing in common, the desire to die, to join with Allah, and get the love they never had.

These horrifying suicide bombing attacks continue to mount. A strong current of encouragement for suicidal killings runs throughout areas of the Middle East and in other countries where Islam is practiced. Children learn at a very young age that to die a martyr and a hero is the highest honor: “It is in the terror-filled homes—not just later in the terrorist training camps—that they first learn to be martyrs and to die for Allah” (deMause, this issue). As early as kindergarten, children in Gaza and the West Bank prance around in suicide bomber garb. Pictures of suicide bombers are proudly displayed on walls, and school textbooks at every level praise young men who elect to become a “shahid,” a martyr for the cause of Palestine and Islam. A current hit movie in Cairo that is receiving enthusiastic applause from audiences, "Friends or Business," offers a sympathetic portrayal of a Palestinian suicide bomber. The plot revolves around the intentional murder of innocent Palestinian children by brutal Israel soldiers. This inspires the young Egyptian hero of the film to decide he must make the ultimate sacrifice. In the end, he blows himself up and also kills the Israeli soldiers—to the wild cheers of the crowds who are seeing the film (Nasra Hassan, 2001). Hassan also describes the effect of one well-known suicide bomber on his young peers:

On the evening of June 1, the town of Kalkilya was celebrating a wedding. Among the well-wishers was a shy looking young man, dressed in black: Sayeed Hotari. A few hours after the wedding, Hotari strapped a belt of dynamite to his waist. He walked up to a crowded Tel Aviv disco, and blew himself up. It was the worst terrorist attack in Israel in more than five years. Twenty-one Israelis, most of them teenagers, were killed. The next day, Hotari's family received congratulations from the residents of Kalkilya. "I feel no regret for my son's death," his father said. "I hope all Palestinian men will do the same." Today, a Hero in Death in Kalkilya, Sayeed Hotari is a legend. His young picture is everywhere and every young boy knows what he did. Asked whether he wanted to be like Hotari, one boy in the market replied, "Yes, because he's a hero."

To die a martyr is the highest form of achievement in Islamic countries. Osama bin Laden is the idealized leader of a borderline society, and the suicide bomber is his messenger. This is a regression to a borderline state; because the borderlines never had the "real" father, only the absent one, they conjure up an imaginary companion or “idealized” father like Allah to pray with five times per day.

From childhood, Islamic terrorists have been taught that to kill themselves —and others — is a worthy goal and that personal pleasures and freedoms are selfish. They learn to be martyrs and want to die for Allah: “’I'm going to meet the Lord of the universe.” All imagine they would still be around to watch their parents be sorry they had killed themselves. “Every time my father sees my photo, he'll cry.” This is an obvious dialogue with the long-lost father object, a severe yearning for contact. The cries are for the love they had missed all their lives.

Suicide bombers are not always lonely and depressed, as might be imagined, but are indoctrinated in their cause (Goode, 12 September 2001). Neither are they always naïve and innocent (Trousan, 20 September 2001). The recent WTC attacks indicate there are no clear rules or stereotypical patterns. The men who executed these attacks were skilled, highly trained, educated, and sophisticated. In a September 27 interview, CBS correspondent Bob Simon talked with a psychologist and a psychiatrist from Israel and Palestine who were experienced with terrorists. They reported that rather than being psychotic, terrorists are rather shy, introverted people who want to be idols and heroes—martyrs to religion and cause. As Kenneth Adams reports (23 September 2001), "the fear of sex in the here and now, with visions of sugar plums dancing in Paradise, is no doubt instilled by the rule of the gynarchy during childhood.”

A Cult-Like Mentality

The events of September 11 upset the conventional wisdom on suicide bombing and martyrdom. "Having analyzed the phenomenon in the Middle East, the intelligence community had decided that suicide attacks were a form of terrorism that could not easily be exported from Palestine," says Brian Jenkins, former member of the Presidential Commission on Airline Safety and senior analyst at the Rand Institute. As investigators learn more about Al Qaeda’s operations on U.S. soil, a perplexing question remains: How could terrorists on a suicide mission live among us for so long and not abandon their resolve? The answer, some experts say, is that Al Qaeda is not a militant religious group but a cult. “Of course, Al Qaeda has no more to do with Islam than Jim Jones had to do with Christianity. And it is no more a bona fide terrorist organization than was Charles Manson’s family. It’s a charismatic psychopath’s bid for immortality via a macabre enactment of his paranoid fantasies” (Los Angeles Times, 29 November 2001).
The Al Qaeda Handbook (2001) may provide clues to the migration of suicide terrorism to America. A how-to manual for members of the terrorist organization, the book sheds light on the psyche of the Al Qaeda terrorist, and paints a picture of a religious cult headed by charismatic leader Osama bin Laden.

"The manual outlines how to perform a variety of terrorist acts, including assassination, poisoning, and torture," explains Jerrold Post, a professor of political psychology at George Washington University. "But above all, I would say that the manual is a good example of how a cult mentality can hijack and manipulate legitimate religious beliefs and turn them into fanatical tenets. The text reveals an organization that follows a very peculiar and extreme kind of Islam and that does not hesitate one bit to depart from Islamic teachings to pursue its own interests" (Pyschohistory Internet Discussion Group, October 2001).

Post testified as an expert witness in the New York City terrorist trial surrounding the first round of bombings at the World Trade Center several years ago and has compiled detailed psychological profiles of dozens of jailed terrorists in the Middle East. "It's the fitting of the fragmented persona of a true believer into a group identity that benefits the organization. Once that's in place, the terrorist can be aimed like a missile," Post says.
Paulo Pontoniere (2001), a correspondent for Italy's leading news weekly, L'Espresso, outlined “practical” terms in the Al Qaeda manual on terrorism that repeatedly provide religious and ideological justification for actions taken by suicide bombers—actions that many Muslims would find profane. For example, lesson eight in the manual directs the Al Qaeda member operating undercover to go to great lengths to avoid an Islamic appearance. Lesson 11 exempts him from having to fulfill his Muslim duties, such as praying, fasting, and doing good deeds. "The text implies that if these violations are carried out for the greatness of Allah, they are then permitted," Post says. Acts such as torture, mass murder, and killing one's fellow members—which are all specifically and explicitly forbidden by the Koran—are explained in practical terms, but paradoxically the handbook identifies sacred readings to refer to during each heinous activity. "Of course, very few Muslims would agree with this zealous interpretation of Islam," Post says. "Jihad is a word which literally means to struggle for the cause of religion. For a Muslim, the struggle means striving to be a better person, donating money to the poor, fulfilling obligations toward the faith and, in extreme cases, fighting in defense of Islam." According to the standards of an Al Qaeda militant, a Muslim must never be the aggressor; a Muslim must fight only those who fight him, and women, children and the elderly should be spared the duress of war. Ultimately, the handbook shows that Al Qaeda could pose a threat to Islam itself if it prevails.

The most disturbing aspect about suicide bombers is how innocent they look, and how calm the terrorists in Al Queda appear. With their compliance, they fit the profile of the “'true believer,' an individual whose low self-esteem and confusion push him to seek refuge within a charismatic mass movement." Post reminds us that the role of Al Qaeda members is to brainwash and encourage members to subordinate their individual wills to the charismatic power of the group's leader, someone like Osama bin Laden.

Young or old, naïve or experienced, Islamic terrorists share a common trait: the utter conviction that their acts will be rewarded and not regarded as evil but heroic. They are convinced that America is a "cancer" metastasizing in the body of Islam. The only cure is eradication. A typical comment: "We will destroy American cities piece by piece because your lifestyle is so objectionable to us.” Palestinian television openly urges children to become a shahid, a martyr for the cause of Palestine and Islam (Nirenstein, 2001).

Suicide bombers share many of the group dynamics of gang members. They are highly traumatized children who have been abandoned, have had severe losses, have been betrayed, and have been raised by unavailable or absent caretakers (alcoholic, abusive or violent parents). They grow up with endless, relentless rage, shame, and humiliation. Their most dominant feature is the desire to retaliate, get even, find a scapegoat (the police, a school principal, a teacher, a vulnerable new kid in the block, a victim on whom to project their most vulnerable parts.

Suicide bombers are not a far cry from gang members who turn to others to project their anger, rage, and pain into hostile aggression. This inability to developmentally evolve, to mourn, to come to terms with guilt, or to make reparations compels them to continually search for external enemies on which to project their hatred.

Conclusion

Some scholars question if we have the right to assign national character or make a “group diagnosis.” It has been argued that Moslems who support terrorism are more inclined toward borderline organization. Obviously, we cannot analyze or diagnose all members of groups of people; nevertheless, we can understand how those who have childhood origins heavily embedded in an abusive, traumatized system become easy prey and are readily available to aggressive leaders who brilliantly manipulate them to support their causes.

Understanding the nature of terrorism and the suicide bomber begins by examining man’s relationship to the father. Insights into the borderline personality with its shame and abandoned orphan themes deepen our understanding of the horrific acts of terrorism and violent expression of aggression toward the West. It is difficult and controversial to discuss national character; however, once we understand the origins of childhood abuse in infancy and how childrearing practices impact an entire society, we can turn to psychoanalytic theory to understand how pre-oedipal and oedipal conflicts remain unresolved. We see regression to the most primitive level of functioning. The social environment and dysfunctionality are clearly symptoms of a dangerous fanaticism that supports denigration of women and reinforces religion as a substitute for love. Using religion as a means to find love demonstrates how traumatized societies universally turn to religion to ward off primitive and persecutory anxieties.

Copyright 2004 by Joan Lachkar, Ph.D.

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