What is Individual Psychotherapy?

About Individual Psychotherapy

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Individual psychotherapy is a partnership between an individual and a a psychotherapist, often one who is analytically trained, licensed to help people understand their inner conflicts (both conscious and unconscious), feelings, and assist them with growth and development that ultimately leads to changing their behaviors.

Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy is most effective in helping people resolve, work through and cope with:

  • Personality Disorders as described in the DSM IV
  • Anxiety and depression
  • Addiction/ eating disorders/phobias
  • Personal Growth/self esteem
  • Relationships
  • Work
  • Grieving and loss
  • Trauma and abuse
  • Dependency issues/separation/individuation
  • Anger management
  • Obsessions
  • Boundary Issues
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Transference/Countertransference (working trough issues as therapist as new “self object)”
  • Communication

Individual Psychotherapy

There are many different styles and clinical approaches to individual psychotherapy and often this is confusing to people in search of treatment. For many years, psychoanalysts were treating patients on the couch three to five times per week. Our ever-changing world and environment has made the old classical style unavailable to the general sector of the population. Self help books, talk radio, internet has made psychotherapy more accessible reaching out to the mainstream of individuals who hitherto never dreamed they would ever seek counseling or psychotherapy. Although the psychodynamics (envy, jealousy, issues around betrayal, entitlement, oedipal and sibling rivalry) remain the same pathologies have changed. We see new forms of psychological emotional viruses that demand new forms of treatment, expanding beyond the rigid boundaries of traditional psychoanalysis. Perhaps the reason many clinicians are encountering new pathologies is because of an increasing percentage of single-parent families, prevalence of divorce rates, surge of working mothers, parental unavailability to children, the near extinction of extended families, and, in general, greater social isolation in a society increasingly dominated by drugs, gangs, and violence. This contributes greatly to the need for new treatment approaches.

Freud’s theory was an intrapsychic, understanding the patients unconscious motivations and movements between id, ego and superego. Freud’s theory was a psychology of instincts focusing more on the need for the father; the ability to master over the father or “oedipal conflicts.” Contemporary theorists, mainly the British School for object relations began to see that the patient does not just struggle with internal conflicts but lives in an interpersonal world and is vulnerable to the responsiveness of others as well as to the environment. The recognition that the mother is the first object the baby bonds with as a major influence in acknowledging women and the importance of her role as a maternal object.

Some of the criticisms are that the behaviorists are too directive, have unrealistic expectations of the patients, and ask too many questions. The object relationists are too confrontive and focus too much on the internal world (patient’s distortions/projections). The self-psychologists are "too empathic,” focus too heavily on the external environment as the cause of all the woe (faulty self objects). The difference between the psychoanalytic/psychodynamic model and the behavioral/cognitive approach is that the latter approach holds what the patient accomplishes or “does” is of number one priority while the psychodynamic/psychoanalytic approach holds the patient’s resistance to getting things done as the number one priority. My approach blends various theoretical methods incorporating the works of Wilfred Bion, helping the patient “think” and understanding the defense mechanisms that impede or destroy the ego’s capacity to function (reality testing, perception, judgment, thinking.) ”I defend therefore I cannot think.”

Systems theory or other "directive" approaches" are simply not enough especially when we are dealing with more complex pathologies and symptomatologies (individuals dominated by primitive defense mechanisms). The problem is they all offer "quick fix" focusing primarily on the symptom, which does not lead to lasting results, nor to any understanding of the unconscious messages. Ironically it is the "quick fix" that got them into mess in the first place. Many family, group and other practitioners today are beginning to see the need for a more in-depth approaches to marital treatment.

Object relations is a psychodynamic theory based on how one relates and interacts with others in the external world. It is a theory of unconscious internal objects which compels a person to form a specific dynamic interaction or attachment. Object relations differs from Freudian theory in that it is an interpersonal theory which helps explain why people cannot adapt even when the environment good and nurturing. Klein taught us how we relate to others through the lenses reflecting the child's world through fantasy as she developed the notion of projective identification. Klein believed the first form of anxiety is persecutory, that the environment that although the environment can it does not originate the baby's primary anxieties and inner conflicts. Klein developed the idea of pathological splitting of "good and "bad" objects through the defensive process of projection and introjection in relation to primitive anxiety and the death instinct (based on biology). Object relations in one of the most powerful theories that examines unconscious fantasies/motivations and reflecting how a person can distort reality projecting and identifying with bad objects.

Self Psychology

This a theory developed by Heinz Kohut, the forerunner of self psychology, a term used to refer to an interpersonal process whereby the analyst provides basic functions for the patient. These functions are used to make up for failures in the past by caretakers who were lacking in mirroring, empathic attunement, and had faulty responses with their children. Kohut reminds us that psychological disturbances are caused by failures from early parental caretakers and the narcissistic injuries created in early childhood leaves that persona always seeking for approval from others. They may spend the rest of their lives living in narcissistic nostalgia longing to be the favorite child and when they feel their sense of “specialness” is under attack will respond with withdrawal or emotional isolation. Therapeutic reparation according to Kohut occurs when the therapist proves appropriate object functions and good mirroring responses.

THERAPEUTIC FUNCTIONS

  1. Empathy
  2. Listening
  3. Understanding
  4. Introspection
  5. Therapist as the Mirroring Object
  6. Therapist as Self Object
  7. Therapist as Container (Hard Object)
  8. Therapist as the Bonding/Weaning/Mommy
  9. Therapist as the Transitional Object, the Bonding/Weaning
  10. Therapist as the Holding and Environmental/ Mommy
  11. Therapist as the "Being" vs. "Doing" Mommy (remembering the patient's experiences and affects)
  12. Therapist as Interpreter
  13. Thinking
  14. Containment

Different Theoretical Perspectives to Treatment

  • Classical Psychoanalysis (intrapsychic)
  • Self Psychology (external; need for mirroring, empathy, and self objects
  • Object Relations (focus on the internal, distortions, projections, introjections
  • Behavioral/Cognitive (focus is on the partnership, directive approach)
  • Self Psychology vs. Object Relations
  • Conjoint/Marital Treatment
  • Group Psychotherapy
  • Psychohistory
  • Cross Culture/Transculture Perspectives

Theorists

  • Sigmund Freud (Oedipus, drive/defense, aggression/instincts
  • Heinz Kohut (self psychology, mirroring, empathy, self objects
  • Melanie Klein (object relations, splitting, projection, projective identification
  • Otto Kernberg (adds aggression to drive/defense and describes four different kinds of relationships).
  • W. R. D. Fairbairn (attachments to bad internal objects)
  • D, Winnicott (transitional objects, different kinds of mothering experiences, environmental/background/holding mother)
  • Wilfred Bion (therapist as the thinker, container, detoxifying mother).

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